Showing posts with label baby. Show all posts
Showing posts with label baby. Show all posts

Tuesday, September 22, 2015

the 'OWL' in children speech & language development

This morning (yesterday morning to be exact), I attended a parenting workshop under speech therapy unit @ HUKM.
I went with an empty mind to learn.
and so I brought home 'OWL'
O - Observe
W - Wait
L - Listen
I must admit, in the haste to let my youngest one to learn talking, I've think I've made it quite stressful not only for myself but has imparted stress on her too. 
So, after this, I'm going to make learning and stimulation in a more relaxed and peaceful environment.
Children learn best during play and when they are happy, peaceful and relaxed.. I must make it a point to remember this.
Thank you for sharing techniques and ways with us.
Hoping that more parents can benefit from these sessions. Kudos.
pic source : mycutegraphics.com

Thursday, January 08, 2015

new year new responsibilities

New year, everyone at home got new responsibilities.
Besides the 2 elder ones going to school to learn, 
they've got new responsibilities.

Vacuum, vacuum 


and more vacuum
Then they gang up and say their 'lau ye che' need vacuuming too

helping sister with bicycle 















Sunday, August 17, 2014

1 year dy lo

my little one has just celebrated her 1st birthday.
In this 1 year, I'm very grateful for every moment that I spent with my children.
I learnt and grew together with them ...
Every moment is very precious 
and I'm thankful for every moment I get to be their mother ... 
I know I am greedy but I do want to continue growing with them year by year 
because I could never love them enough ...

Sharing the below video ... 
click on lower right corner for english subtitles

Sunday, April 27, 2014

the space I miss most

I recently transferred to another department,
I was surprised that the space I miss most was NOT my workstation
instead I miss this space the most.

This is the ONE and ONLY so call 'lactation room' we have in the building.
It is slightly bigger than the size of a regular bathroom.
It can fit up to 4 person (tried & tested)

This was where at one point of time, during my second child time, 
4 mothers cramped inside together to do their motherly duties.
and the best part was this space does not have any power socket (since it is a small partitioned space between the pantry and office room).
and we have to use extension wire (the turn to roll type) to connect power point to this space and extension plug to accommodate 4 electric breast pump.

It was not on purpose that all 4 of us from the same department pump together, our boss didn't like it anyway.
It was all because this is the ONLY lactation room we have in the building and everyone is waiting for their turn to use. So we figured it is better for all 4 of us to occupy the room at one go rather than wait for one another.

Our number twiddle from 4 to 3 to 2 to 1.
And then back to 2 when I had to slot in to other people time (I was on different floor) which make it hard for me to 'book' the room.
And then I had the room all to myself thereafter. 
I remember making myself comfortable in there, momentarily throwing away all my work stress and concentrated on my motherly duties while listening to Ai FM.

The people on that floor has been so used to seeing me around that they notice that I'm missing when I'm on leave. 
They too have been very kind to reserve a electrical point for me to connect from pantry to the room. The other are used for microwave oven and some other electrical appliances.

I miss the birds who likes to walk and chip near the window.
I miss the eavesdropping of people talking in the pantry (either phone call or chit chat)..I know this is not good.
I miss the privacy at least this room provide

Cause at the new place (the building) ...
they have an even SMALLER and ONLY lactation room (half the size).
Even equipped with 1 small table, 2 chairs, 1 power point, and some magazines, 
it feels devoid as it is fully booked throughout the day (a few slots by the same person - kiasu), and no one is willing to share pumping session,
so much so that I've upgraded myself to 'workstation pumper' with 'very the thick skin'.
(a sure very notorious way to gain popularity)
if you are thinking what about vacant meeting room / store room?
meeting room - fully booked most of the time and is all glass from ceiling to floor.
store / document room - too small, too packed and too risky if anything goes missing from inside.
surau - not a suitable place and ONLY 1 small partitioned surau for the whole building also.

So,
This is my OPEN PLEA to organisation especially BIG ones 
At least have the courtesy to RESPECT the RIGHTS of mothers to breastfeed their children. 
We don't do it on purpose to escape from work (we have better ways and excuses than breast pumping).
For all you know, we all have mother / wife / daughters ... someone will surely benefit enormously from this 'room' 

Well, again as always, I'm still very grateful for being able to at least benefited from the 'room'. 
And again as usual, I'll continue voicing this need at every opportunity until someone HEAR us. 
I'm not sure if something will happen if someone stumble upon this post, but 
LET IT GO, LET IT GO!
Can't hold it back any more

View from outside (left side is the pantry)

View of inside 


View from inside 


Tuesday, October 08, 2013

my latest work out sessions

someone posted this work out on facebook 
and I could RELATE ... lol












source : http://bit.ly/17D53uM

Tuesday, October 30, 2012

today 1 year ago (part 1)

today 1 year ago... 
most probably I'm still being stitched up in the labour room.

today here I'm reflecting on how much I've been through
In my mind, today 1 year ago was a 2nd chance my little girl gave me.
some people were puzzled when they found out I wanted to have a normal delivery after a cesaerean ... 
but only perhaps God, me, baby and ah dear know how much I wanted a VBAC
and how much I've gone through physically and emotionally.

I still remembered clearly that Saturday morning 
my due date is still a week away and I still have unsettled business at work. 
Even my bag for hospital was not finished packing.
I feel like having diarrhea around 4am++ in the morning so I rushed to the toilet bringing with me a magazine (yes, I read while detoxing). 

I didn't suspect much although having diarrhea like episode was one of the signs I had for my 1st labour.
It was only when I notice I had a patch of bloody discharge on my underwear that I started to panic. Yah, I know this is not my 1st time but I still get nervous and worry if baby is alright. 
I scrutinized and sniffed and looked and sniffed again to confirm whether are those blood fresh. Honestly I didn't know if labour is starting anytime soon. I only felt slight menstrual cramp.

I tried going back to sleep but I woke up the very next hour to the loo again. The bloody discharge seem to get lesser.
I started researching on the internet, some say that the actual labour could start in hour / days from the 'bloody show'.

So I reassured myself that perhaps I still have time to relax a little. 

That Saturday afternoon (29/10/11), I've actually promised to meet a representative from one of stem cell banking company. When the rep asked for my estimated due date, I steadily told her still got a week to go... not knowing I'll be giving birth the very next day.

As usual, a trip to tesco without actually going into tesco is pointless for me...haha. 
So, with many reasons ... such as wanting to walk more, easier to deliver and wanting to buy this and that, I managed to persuade dear to accompany me and little boy to tesco.

After tesco, since I still have slight bleeding, we decided it's best we go to the hospital.
So around 3pm that saturday, we went to hospital. I insist that ah dear do not drop me at the O&G emergency doorstep because I still want to walk for easier delivery.

Contraction come and go ... or so I thought they are braxton hicks contractions ... which I have during my 3rd trimester.

.... to be continued

Saturday, October 13, 2012

when he thinks we are sleeping


This is one of the many proof of things he has done when he thinks we are still sleeping..
Not only does he applied lotion to his 妹妹's face ... he also applied lotion on the poor little fella's face. 

Friday, September 07, 2012

life's simple pleasure



I love to let my children play with toys that are non-toy. 
(And also get scolding from their papa for letting them play with non-toy that are considered hazardous items)
By doing so, hopefully I'm able to teach them to appreciate simple things in life. To be able to make lemonade from lemons. To be able to create something out of nothing ...

So those previous weekends (when I no need to work like this coming Saturday) I'll let them experience real fun @@! 
(although I suspect it's more I'm the one having most fun...lol)

I tried putting them into bath basin and drag them around like boat (minus the water) which my little one enjoy very much and will start shaking the boat if I stop to rest. She likes it the most when the boat makes a 360` turn. 
And when I've burnt off enough calorie, I will just throw some treasure into the boat, she'll have some good time provided I remain in sight. That's how I get stuff done in the kitchen nowadays.

Sometimes, when things get out of control, I detain her in the laundry basket and surround her with all the dirty clothes and bedsheets. She'll have to figure out how to release herself from the cocoon...haha (sounded a little cruel ho?)
Now, she released that the laundry basket couldn't support her weight anymore when she stand up and tilt to a side (and mama wouldn't let her fall) so she got her easy way out dy ..lol
Perhaps it's time to make it more challenging =p



Sunday, March 11, 2012

特别的爱给特别的你

Last night, I was sleepy but I feel like giving some love ...
and so I took out my sewing box.
and so I cut out the cute picture from a pre-loved stained little pant.
and so I started filing it with love..
and here's the outcome 
and I absolutely love it
and it will be breakfast suprise for little ones..

Front 
Back


Wednesday, March 07, 2012

you're doing OK, Mom



Sometimes motherhood pushes us to do something we never knew we could do...something beyond our imagination.
Although our children may not be capable yet of saying this, but I would like to choose to believe that they are telling us : You're doing OK, Mom.
This Johnson & Johnson commercial hit it right. Enjoy =)
it's time for me to head back to dreamland =)
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