I was asked this question, it got me thinking...
If on one day, you see someone you know
your friend's partner (bf/gf) with another guy/girl
(let's say they don't look like casual friends or on a business discussion)
Will you choose to M.Y.O.B (Mind Your Own Business) a.k.a remain silent
OR
Will you choose to let her know (whether straight-forwardly or subtly or hintly)
I believe there are many factors that need to be taken into consideration ...
1. Is what we see what we see
2. what might happen if we tell, what might happen if we not tell
3. the level of trust
4. the individuals involved
5. the guilt of telling or the guilt of not telling
6. the relationship
There are no right or wrong answer for this ...
It's like a book I read not long ago... My Sister's Keeper.
it says "If you risk a daughter's life to save another daughter's life ... are you being a good mother or a very bad one?'
2 comments:
risk or sacrifice? for this case it depends very much on what is lost and what is to be gained or maybe even lost.
true that there is no right or wrong answers but a decision sometimes have to be made be it right or wrong :)
honesty is the best policy...hahaha
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